In this world
There are people who have never been allowed to
be themselves.
All through childhood they were expected to fit a mold
or else
They were expected to be perfect
or else
They were not allowed to be angry
or else
They were not allowed to be sad
or else
They were not allowed to feel
or else
Yet
They are adults now
still living with the fear of or else
and most aren't even aware of it
They fawn to be accepted
like a little kid wanting a parents approval
They freeze when scared
just like a little kid would
They fight when cornered
just like a little kid would
They run when overwhelmed
just like a little kid would
They have never had someone to teach them how to handle emotions
They have never had anyone they could trust
They don't know what it's like to be treated as an individual
They don't know how to be an individual
In this age, where people "care" about mental health
no one knows how to actually "care" about mental health
You don't need to do anything special
just let these people be the little kid they were never allowed to be
just let them have their emotions
and help them understand them
let them be angry, frustrated, or sad
and just ask "why".
No need to explain it to them
No need to fix it for them
just ask "why"
or shut up and listen
if it doesn't make sense
then it doesn't make sense
just let them feel it
they need to know its okay to express emotion
like a little kid.
Then when they get it out
let them
If they do something wrong,
let them know
and show them what it is like to be forgiven
or that guilt can haunt them
That guilt can manifest into a monster if the little kid doesn't know how to let it out.
You need to remember these people were denied a childhood
they were never able to grow
Just give them a chance to catch up
before the monster takes over.
**** the monster, not the kid
Jan 11, 2021
Jan 11, 2021 at 10:40 AM UTC
In this world
There are people who have never been allowed to
be themselves.
All through childhood they were expected to fit a mold
or else
They were expected to be perfect
or else
They were not allowed to be angry
or else
They were not allowed to be sad
or else
They were not allowed to feel
or else
Yet
They are adults now
still living with the fear of or else
and most aren't even aware of it
They fawn to be accepted
like a little kid wanting a parents approval
They freeze when scared
just like a little kid would
They fight when cornered
just like a little kid would
They run when overwhelmed
just like a little kid would
They have never had someone to teach them how to handle emotions
They have never had anyone they could trust
They don't know what it's like to be treated as an individual
They don't know how to be an individual
In this age, where people "care" about mental health
no one knows how to actually "care" about mental health
You don't need to do anything special
just let these people be the little kid they were never allowed to be
just let them have their emotions
and help them understand them
let them be angry, frustrated, or sad
and just ask "why".
No need to explain it to them
No need to fix it for them
just ask "why"
or shut up and listen
if it doesn't make sense
then it doesn't make sense
just let them feel it
they need to know its okay to express emotion
like a little kid.
Then when they get it out
let them
If they do something wrong,
let them know
and show them what it is like to be forgiven
or that guilt can haunt them
That guilt can manifest into a monster if the little kid doesn't know how to let it out.
You need to remember these people were denied a childhood
they were never able to grow
Just give them a chance to catch up
before the monster takes over.
**** the monster, not the kid
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