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Ode to Joe Cole

Hello Joe, I'm married to Jim

I'm sure that you remember him

I know it's been a lot of years

I'm sure there's been a lot of tears

I'd like to help, to reconcile

So think about it for a while

I am a soldier, you were too

We both did what we had to do

And we both know war takes a toll

It leaves a black mark on your soul

No matter what you try to do

It makes it hard to be with you

Whiskey just won't chase away

The ghosts that haunt you every day

Before you know just what you've done

You lost your wife and lost your son

The damage done you can't undo

And I'm sure that's not lost on you

Your son's a man and he's so fine

I'm very proud to call him mine

I know it's more than 20 years

You may be rightly full of fears

I hear his childhood wasn't great

A violent time and full of hate

In Germany, the cold war chill

And home grown trauma left him ill

Back to Suffolk, civvy street

Life still violent, not too sweet

But Jim grew into quite a guy

His childhood makes me wonder why

He overcame as time flew by

It's not the beatings that you gave

That helped him learn to be so brave

Your son's a pilgrim brave and true

Despite and not because of you

But now I've found you, Happy Day

So what you got to say?

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Written by
JosieB
Yorkshire
Published
Oct 27, 2015
Lines·Words
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I've been looking for my husbands father, Joe Cole. I found him here. I've never met him but am looking to do so. I'd like to know what sort of man he is

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#abuse#child#trauma#estranged#families
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