There have been many who have said that actions
speak louder than words.
I would be lying if I said I did not love you.
But affections are not in phrases, or letters.
Affections are walks in the spring air,
Laughing.
Meaningless chatter over cold tea.
Random love notes
Or flowers
Or even planned events.
Affections are showing up when I’m sick
with my favorite movie,
or taking me to that family dinner that even you don’t want to go to.
Affections are caring enough to tell me that my shirt is ugly.
To argue with me because it makes me mad
when you don’t.
(And then to apologize after.)
To know my issues, and to understand;
to not pressure me.
Affections are knowing the words ‘I love you’ are there,
without being asked, or having to ask,
but saying them anyway.