They say it like a warning.
Like a flaw.
Like something soft
and breakable
and less.
You throw like a girl.
You run like a girl.
You fight like a girl.
As if girl means
crooked.
Weak.
Almost.
As if girl means
not enough.
But tell me —
What does “like a girl”
even look like?
Like scraped knees
from learning anyway?
Like voices hoarse
from shouting over laughter?
Like teeth clenched
from being underestimated
again
and again
and again?
Because I have seen girls
run until their lungs burned,
throw until their arms shook,
fight battles no one clapped for.
I have seen girls
carry worlds quietly
on narrow shoulders.
Yet somehow
girl became shorthand
for failure.
An insult
disguised as grammar.
You cry like a girl.
You quit like a girl.
You’re just a girl.
Just?
Just the ones who survive
a thousand tiny dismissals.
Just the ones who grow armor
where confidence should have been handed freely.
Just the ones who learn strength
without ever being allowed
to look strong.
So say it again.
Say “like a girl”
like it’s something small.
And I’ll hear —
Like relentless.
Like fierce.
Like the mistake
you made
underestimating her.
Mar 30
Mar 30, 2026 at 8:19 PM UTC
They say it like a warning.
Like a flaw.
Like something soft
and breakable
and less.
You throw like a girl.
You run like a girl.
You fight like a girl.
As if girl means
crooked.
Weak.
Almost.
As if girl means
not enough.
But tell me —
What does “like a girl”
even look like?
Like scraped knees
from learning anyway?
Like voices hoarse
from shouting over laughter?
Like teeth clenched
from being underestimated
again
and again
and again?
Because I have seen girls
run until their lungs burned,
throw until their arms shook,
fight battles no one clapped for.
I have seen girls
carry worlds quietly
on narrow shoulders.
Yet somehow
girl became shorthand
for failure.
An insult
disguised as grammar.
You cry like a girl.
You quit like a girl.
You’re just a girl.
Just?
Just the ones who survive
a thousand tiny dismissals.
Just the ones who grow armor
where confidence should have been handed freely.
Just the ones who learn strength
without ever being allowed
to look strong.
So say it again.
Say “like a girl”
like it’s something small.
And I’ll hear —
Like relentless.
Like fierce.
Like the mistake
you made
underestimating her.
Say it again.
