you always hear the same things
"Love isn't something you find. Love is something that finds you."
"Being in love with somebody is a wonderful feeling."
"love makes the world go round."
and let's not forget
"Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye."
or
"Love is the joy of the good"
you know some are drunk on the idea that love is the reason of living
and it can cure every sadness.
that's flat out foolish
now I'm not trashing the feeling
cause the saying
"'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."
is oh so true
sometimes people come in your life as a blessing or a lesson
sometimes love isn't what you dreamed it would be
sometimes you fall in love with the wrong person
sometimes love is just not for everyone

many say being alone is something to be avoided
but in reality it's the time that we all need at a point in life
being alone makes me think more
being alone clams me
being alone makes me realize that it's better than being around too many people
being alone is where there's no drama
being alone is where there is no judgement
being alone is an opportunity to move in silence
being alone helps me focus on mine needs and wants rather someone else's
being alone gives me a chance at figuring out who I really am
being alone helps me to better myself
being alone is my happy place
it's not all bad being lonely but in the end your never truly alone
because Christ is always with you

Life is all about evolution.
What looks like a mistake to others has been a milestone in my life
even if people have betrayed me
even if my heart was broken
even if people misunderstood me
or judged me
I have learned from these incidents.
we are human and we make mistakes  
but learning from them is what makes the difference
take the lesson you've learned
and grow from it