a person u can talk to in confidence
a person who will build u up
when others just tear u down
a person who u can trust
a person who can keep your secrets
all that and more is simply
*A GOOD FRIEND

we normally think that the meaning of beauty simply is to be beautiful.
but i'm afraid that is not the case my dear friends.
the meaning of beauty is to be the one where you won't put others down
just to raise you self pride but encouraging others to be the best that they can
or that you won't be too afraid to speak your mind but you will speak no matter who you upset,
or that you won't be the one following the crowd
but the one leading the crowd
being the different one yet being humble in your character
is what beauty truly means
as my sister says-
*you have to be different to make a difference

'you come here NOW!'
'hey stop that!'
I think most of us know those phrases
yeah we get really annoyed
you think that she's always on your case
but do you know why?
its because she doesn't want you
to go down the wrong road
come on, for those with sane mothers
think about it for a while
is she really doing this to ruin your life?
if you're saying yes
WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE
you are just being STUPID!!!!!!!!!
all moms want their children to come out
with DEGREES, MASTERS, PHDs etc.
she wants to be able to proudly say with her head held high
'THAT THERE IS MY CHILD!'
remember she carried you for those nine months
she took all the pain just to bring you into this world

ALL SHE WANTS IS THE BEST FOR YOU
AND IF YOU CAN'T SEE THAT YOU DON'T DESERVE A MOM!
TREASURE HER WHILE YOU CAN
SHE IS GOD GIVEN AFTER ALL

he** is not worth all the tears you shed!
is just not fair to you!
just think about it there are plenty of better fish in the sea!
another day, another one, another heartbreak!
fool- that is what he is for not seeing you value!!
passing through life with the load of a fool -not smart!
by the way has any one ever told you that you needn't to please others just yourself!:)

this poem is just a bunch of quotes i found on the internet. hope you enjoy

he offered her the world but she said she already had her own
                       the most BEAUTIFUL  a woman can wear is *CONFIDENCE
the difference between me and them chicks is that i don't need to count his money because i'm too busy making my own
she turned her cant's into cans and her dreams into plans
last but not least
**be the kind of woman who when your feet hit the floor in the morning the devil says OH NO SHE'S UP!

OH I'M SO SORRY FOR TRUSTING
A BACKSTABBING ............................ LIKE YOU!!@#!

a real friend
is hard to find
even harder to lose
&
impossible to forget

this is something i think we'll all agree to-
a girl's BFF, doesn't have to be a girl
and a boy's best friend doesn't have to be a boy
a girl needs a friend who wouldn't hit the boy she finds cute
and the same thing applies for boys

a real friend can't promise to solve all your problems but they can promise that you won't face them alone

a real friend is the walks in when the rest walks out

*a real friend:
cares like a mom,
scolds like a dad,
teases like a sister,
irritates like a brother
and
LOVES more than a lover

the love we shared
the  times we had
all gone
the emotion that was with us
the letters we sent each other
if only I knew
I could have helped

I can't help but miss you
one of the people I wasvery close with
did you not trust me enough?
did you think I would think of you any differently?
YOU SHOULD HAVE COME TO ME!!

if you thought that you would have hurt me
I am 100% sure that this is worse
I didn't just lose a friend I lost a part of me
if only you told me that you............................
people ask me how you didn't tell me
and honestly all I can think of is
that you didn't want to
hurt me because I DON'T want to believe that after all we've been through you don't trust me?

now your gone and actually
it made no sense keeping this from me
because I found out didn't I?
you probably were too embarrassed, too ashamed to say
it's quite ok I mean I couldn't force it out because I didn't even know it was there.

I trust that wherever you are
the new friends you make you
don't make this mistake again
this small yet HUGE secret caused
me a lot of sorrow
not only did you keep this from me
you keep it from everyone except yourself
yeah I know you're not the depend type but in all seriousness come on!
you like to be big and independent but you crossed the line
and now you lost your life

all I can say is that I miss you dearly
and again you should have told someone even if its not me
I cry at night thinking about the memories that have turned into
nightmares just reminding me that you're gone
all I can think about when I remember you is 'why didn't tell me?'
its too late anyhow and if you were here you would have told me 'don't moan I've gone a better place. move on with life I've lived mine and now its time for you too continue living yours without me.'
it going to be DIFFICULT but
GOOD BYE FRIEND I'LL MISS U:(:(:(:(:(

okay so...................
you know that you are putting them through hell, yet you continue and find it some what not a private matter so you go and tell your friends about it and make up ridiculous lies that they surprisingly believe..............

let me give you a dead on percentage range of
what you do and don't know-
what you know- 10%
what you don't know-90%

you know that you have problems, that you put them through hell yet they stay only out of love, that when they try to talk to you you cut them off because you don't agree with what they say etc.

but what you don't know is that
the reason of you 13 yr. old daughter having anger issues and respect problems is only because of how much you work you make her do one after the other and how you drive her up a wall, also the only **** reason she doesn't curse you up and freak out when you very much upset her is because she doesn't want to say what she wants to say(because you will be shocked as to what she has to say), so she sees a guidance counsellor in school with no one knowing. also....................that your 16 yr. old daughter who is preparing for one of the biggest exams in her life, had a mental break down in school because of everything going on at home. thankfully she was able to keep it under control.

don't be responsible for these things .
oh! also what you don't know is that your family is through with thinking that your problems are causing you to behave in such a manner because though it is they and you all know that you can stop if you wish but you don't..................... so..........................

what are you going to do after these 12+ yrs. doing this to your family,
what are you going to do when they decide to finally leave you and be happy and free?
HUH?!?!?!?
what are you going to do?