I love you and I used to could talk about it
But now it feels like manual labor
forming orders inside my mouth.
I want to say “when did it all come to be so hard?”
But it has always been this way, hasn’t it?
reasons Reasons REASONS
For bizarrely monogamous reasons
it has always been hard to talk about the way
I love you.
We were married and that was
And then we were married but IN LOVE and that was
Then we were divorcing and HURTING and that was
And now we are friends and have all new
was the phrase that came to mind
when I tried to make sense
of what had happened to me
half way through listening to
the song he had sent
“You know you gave me all the time
Oh, did I give enough of mine?”
It was the unchangeable joining
of thought and feeling that produced
within me a growing emotional experience
that no more asked permission to be
than did any other seed and egg.
“Say you don’t know me anymore
But that’s a bullet on your floor”
I have never been a reliable narrator though
how many negative tests have I produced
even amid ******* that imagined they were swollen
nausea that persisted for days
and blood that stained sheets much later than expected?
Had I just spent the last two years
in an elaborate emotional pregnancy scare?
Had the joining of lyrics
of hungry bodies
of insatiable hearts
produced within me an embryo of empty hope?
Have I sabotaged my own lifeblood
in a desire to force from my womb
some monstrous and malformed product
of what had been lifegiving friendship?
I don't think this is done yet but I needed to put it somewhere before the feeling was gone... ya'll get that right?
Night sits on my chest
Squeezes poems out of me
And grinds my poor soul
He sleeps while I lay awake
I think this is the nature
How many times have I lain awake
while a boy I was ******* slept?
Sometimes when you are faced with absurdity
All you can do is sleep.
I think I've made a terrible mistake
but this isn't the first time I've felt
I am not to be trusted.
I don't think I've slept in nearly two years.
Instead closing my eyes only in the merciful combination of desperation and design.
Last night he went to sleep at 12:03
I listened for his breaths to slow.
I rubbed my feet together
In near panic.
And didn't turn on Josh Ritter until
Falling in love =/= being in love
Life is all about lessons. Choices.
I never felt alone until I met you.
Not alone like this.
Do you dwell in this space also?
Am I less alone in at least that much?
Sleep softly, babes.
I heard a song today that I know
I am not better for having heard.
*******, Steve Forbert and
"But everything burned
And fell from my hand
I had to turn back
Or build a new plan"
My life was better before this affirmation
of the universal human experience
of whole entire worlds burned
to less than ashes
in those moments of clarity.
"Meet me in the middle of the day
Let me hear you say everything's okay
Meet me in the middle of the night
Let me hear you say everything's alright"
We could have stopped at
and danced forever
in the kitchen of my heart.
That might have been
the nostalgic space you occupied
but you weren't ever happy
until you had force ****** me:
"You're thinking you've found
The one special place
Where all your dreams
Will walk out in line
And follow the course
You've made in your mind
It isn't gonna be that way"
More than forty years apart
the same soul sick hurting!
Can you feel it now
when the sun warms your skin?
Does your heart sing love songs as before?
Did it feel like betrayal when you
rejoined everyone who had been waiting?
I need so much to believe
you are ok now Steve Forbert.
I don't think this is done.
Words are wind
is a thing you used to love to say
when I would start "defending"
"Words are wind, Mandi!
Anyone can give you words!"
You would leave the air silent
only then with your own.
The space between us entirely empty of you.
This was not the vacuum of last spring.
There would be no side of highway hand plucked wildflowers.
No phones vibrating with your messages between thighs in sessions.
No intertwined sweat soaked limbs in the sauna of a midday tent.
I was thankful of it.
I longed for your nearness but not your misplaced romance or hope.
No -I would have you now in the Autumn.
Too depressed to breathe;
you would never draw me close.
Your words only came with
alcohol, ***, or some combination of
supposed truth serums.
As you had said though:
"Words are wind, Mandi!"
And your words somehow both too abundant and too few
blew through that space between us
like a winter's Gale.
Seeking shelter from the elements you created
meant leaving you to find your own way through.
The only way out for either of us.
It is nearly spring again now.
I know it must be because
I can see primrose
defying all logic with it's
near invisible courage.
I champion it on with its
welcomed heralding of a needed
I hope that we both get to be
The shallow words you offer now
will never begin
to fill the deep chasms
you've eroded into me.
Into the heart, soul, bones, brain, sinew of
When we were still new
you had already begun
to chip away at
But you said
with each raise of your maul
“I love you
and I would never
do anything to hurt
but NO ONE
had ever loved
I opened myself wide
and you crawled inside
to make yourself a home in
I was empty before then
and still I am empty.
According to Bukowski
I should have let you ****